(Sample 1)
PRAYER
PURPOSE
to debrief pastor/people relationship
to understand what happened in the relationship
to discover how to put closure on the pastor/people relationship
This is not a time to reverse decision, to debate or argue issues, to lay blame or create guilt, it is a time to be as frank and honest with each other as possible. It is a time to help in healing the wounds which have occurred in a broken relationship.
PASTOR
How was local church different from what you expected it would be?
What are some experiences that have been important during your ministry here?
How is local church different now from when you came?
What do you think are the strengths of this church?
What do you think are the weaknesses of this church?
What had you hoped to accomplish together?
What have you learned about yourself in this process?
How can you say GOOD-BYE?
CHURCH
How was pastor different from what you expected he would be?
What are some experiences that have been important during his/her ministry here?
How is pastor different from when he came?
How are you different now from when he came?
What do you think are the strengths of this pastor?
What do you think are the weaknesses of this pastor?
What had you hoped to accomplish together?
What has the church learned about itself in this process?
A WORD OF GRATITUDE
PRAYER